While you are using your mind symbolically, that is, depending on names and comparisons, you cannot see Reality. See Reality first, then use your mind. The glass of water---what is it? This is this. That is all. There is just one Reality. Transcendental, actual---just names. Surprise the mind and see Reality directly.
When you talk you need names, but in meditation you do not need a word. We start in naked silence. When you find real meditation without a word, you attain true wisdom [Prajna]. Your mind becomes pure, and you can see your true soul directly. When your mind is free from all conceptions that do not truly exist---Is it good or bad?---you will find true emancipation.