There is a relational field (Judith Blackstone uses this term). The door is not locked...the perceived, perceiver, and perceiving are an indivisible whole- connected as a unity, a oneness. The words in this post opened a sudden clarity here. Thank you.
I'm very glad to hear that this post "had that effect." Of course, neither of us can "take the credit."I hadn't heard of JB before; I'll look her up.